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Is Online Dating Worth It?

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You've probably heard of online dating. You may even have a few friends that do it. But, despite your curiosity, you haven't been able to convince yourself to actually try it out. We're here to answer some of your burning questions. I'm like a walking commercial for online dating. I tried EliteSinglesMeet for about a week, met a girl within a couple days, and two and a half years later, we're getting married. Dating sites would like you to think this is a common occurrence, but the more people I talk to, the more I learn that everyone's experience is different. However, I've also learned that there are a lot of misconceptions and fears about online dating that prevent people from giving it a try. And, while I can't promise everyone's experience will be as great as mine, I do think it's worth a shot. Here are a few questions I often get from people who are curious...but haven't yet taken the plunge. Are people really doing thi...

Online dating: 10 rules to help find the ideal partner

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Make a wishlist Develop a strategy before you begin. What, exactly, are you looking for? Create a shopping list and be as specific as possible. Rather than saying "someone who wants kids", get granular. Say that you want someone who wants two kids, about three years apart and is willing to go through fertility treatments with you should pregnancy become a problem. Part of making your list is defining what you want. Keep score Once you've thought of all the traits you want in a mate, prioritise them. Think about the characteristics in the context of previous relationships, your friends and your family. Develop a scoring system. Allocate points to your top 10, and fewer points to a second set of 10‑15 characteristics. Decide the lowest number of points you'll accept in order to go out on a date with someone. This is basically developing a handcrafted algorithm, just for yourself. Get online Pick a few websites to use.  MillionaireMatch.com  is a more gene...

What To Do When A Girl Doesn’t Text Back

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You approach a nice girl and begin a conversation. You spend 30 or 40 minutes talking to her the first time. She was charming, pretty, and exactly your type. It goes well, so you ask for her number.  She doesn’t write back.  Or she responds back quickly and then, after a few more short texts, she never texts you again. Maybe you are wondering why? Ok, maybe she’s busy. So you wait a bit and the waiting gets longer and longer. After a few days, you realize she’s ignoring you. Why hasn’t she responded to your text? Checkout this system if you need a step-by-step guidance on how to get her back, even if she didn’t reply to any of your texts! Why doesn’t she text back? In a majority of cases, the reason why she hasn’t texted you back is because you didn’t make a good first impression. Of course, it’s also possible that she lost her phone while rescuing a child from a burning home or something like that, but let’s focus on making a good first impression. To avoid her ...

15 Questions Men Don't Want Women to Ask on a First Date!

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Oftentimes I have read articles about women that state they have had more first dates than they can count. Very rarely do these women get asked out for a second date and almost never get asked out on a third date. Too often the problem is these women are trying to put the cart before the horse. Instead of approaching the first date with the intention of just having some lighthearted fun they behave like a woman on a mission. The first date should be all about having fun! You want to see if there is any chemistry between you. Asking the wrong questions or the right questions at the wrong time can kill your chances of getting a second date. Below are 15 questions that could zap the fun out of any first date. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? In all honesty it doesn’t matter much what a person’s plans are for the next five years if you don’t enjoy their company on the first date. The purpose of a first date is to see if we have chemistry. Odds are if we don’t there won’t be a...

8 Things “Nice Guys” Who Can’t Get Girls Need To Know

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1) Stop saying you're the nice guy who finishes last. You moan,whine, and lament about how nice guys finish last as if it's a good thing. You're crying for attention. You want me to reply, “Hey, being a nice person is a good thing! The right one will come along!” to give you hope. But both you and I know you're just trying to validate your insecurities as somebody who really wants a girl but has no clue about how to get one. You're NOT going to get a girl if you're constantly victimizing yourself as the nice guy who accepts the idea that you have to finish last. You want a girl? Aim for first place. 2) Being nice doesn't mean you have to be weak. To elaborate the first point, being nice doesn't mean you have to be weak. Stop saying “yes” when deep down the answer is “no.” Stop getting out of your way to do favors for people who won’t appreciate you. Stop waiting two hours for a girl who is perpetually late. Stop backing down and start standing u...