8 Things “Nice Guys” Who Can’t Get Girls Need To Know
1) Stop saying you're the nice guy who finishes last. You moan,whine, and lament about how nice guys finish last as if it's a good thing. You're crying for attention. You want me to reply, “Hey, being a nice person is a good thing! The right one will come along!” to give you hope. But both you and I know you're just trying to validate your insecurities as somebody who really wants a girl but has no clue about how to get one. You're NOT going to get a girl if you're constantly victimizing yourself as the nice guy who accepts the idea that you have to finish last. You want a girl? Aim for first place. 2) Being nice doesn't mean you have to be weak. To elaborate the first point, being nice doesn't mean you have to be weak. Stop saying “yes” when deep down the answer is “no.” Stop getting out of your way to do favors for people who won’t appreciate you. Stop waiting two hours for a girl who is perpetually late. Stop backing down and start standing u...