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The 7 Biggest Mistakes Women Make In Dating

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                                               www.elitesinglesmeet.com As a dating and relationships coach, I deal every day with mistakes that get made in these areas. Some dating mistakes aren’t a big deal. There’s a lot of things you can do “wrong” that won’t end up costing you in the grand scheme. Then there’s mistakes that aren’t so harmless. Over my time coaching dating, these are the 7 biggest mistakes I see women make that lead to the most pain, worst choices in partners, and least overall fulfillment. Thinking you’ll find love without meeting lots of men If you want a great job, you spend thousands of hours at school and college, working to earn it. If you want to master a sport, you spend thousands of hours practicing. And if you want a great relationship with a quality guy, you… Sit around hoping? There’s a fantasy across society that ‘love and relationships’ is the one area of life where you can achieve amazing results, without putting in any ef

What To Do When A Girl Doesn’t Text Back

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You approach a nice girl and begin a conversation. You spend 30 or 40 minutes talking to her the first time. She was charming, pretty, and exactly your type. It goes well, so you ask for her number.  She doesn’t write back.  Or she responds back quickly and then, after a few more short texts, she never texts you again. Maybe you are wondering why? Ok, maybe she’s busy. So you wait a bit and the waiting gets longer and longer. After a few days, you realize she’s ignoring you. Why hasn’t she responded to your text? Checkout this system if you need a step-by-step guidance on how to get her back, even if she didn’t reply to any of your texts! Why doesn’t she text back? In a majority of cases, the reason why she hasn’t texted you back is because you didn’t make a good first impression. Of course, it’s also possible that she lost her phone while rescuing a child from a burning home or something like that, but let’s focus on making a good first impression. To avoid her not responding

15 Questions Men Don't Want Women to Ask on a First Date!

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Oftentimes I have read articles about women that state they have had more first dates than they can count. Very rarely do these women get asked out for a second date and almost never get asked out on a third date. Too often the problem is these women are trying to put the cart before the horse. Instead of approaching the first date with the intention of just having some lighthearted fun they behave like a woman on a mission. The first date should be all about having fun! You want to see if there is any chemistry between you. Asking the wrong questions or the right questions at the wrong time can kill your chances of getting a second date. Below are 15 questions that could zap the fun out of any first date. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? In all honesty it doesn’t matter much what a person’s plans are for the next five years if you don’t enjoy their company on the first date. The purpose of a first date is to see if we have chemistry. Odds are if we don’t there won’t be a

8 Things “Nice Guys” Who Can’t Get Girls Need To Know

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1) Stop saying you're the nice guy who finishes last. You moan,whine, and lament about how nice guys finish last as if it's a good thing. You're crying for attention. You want me to reply, “Hey, being a nice person is a good thing! The right one will come along!” to give you hope. But both you and I know you're just trying to validate your insecurities as somebody who really wants a girl but has no clue about how to get one. You're NOT going to get a girl if you're constantly victimizing yourself as the nice guy who accepts the idea that you have to finish last. You want a girl? Aim for first place. 2) Being nice doesn't mean you have to be weak. To elaborate the first point, being nice doesn't mean you have to be weak. Stop saying “yes” when deep down the answer is “no.” Stop getting out of your way to do favors for people who won’t appreciate you. Stop waiting two hours for a girl who is perpetually late. Stop backing down and start standing u

How can I have a conversation on a dating app?

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If you're a woman, "Hi" will usually get a response. The problem is, it will be an equally boring response. Make online dating more fun by trying one of these instead. 1. Pick one thing on his profile and make fun of him for it. Did he really need to have his shirt off at that block party? Is that really his dog/baby/infinity pool or is he just using it to attract women? Making fun of someone in a light-hearted way creates instant intimacy and his response will reveal whether he can take a joke. 2. Ask him a personal question. Everyone loves talking about themselves, and trading personal stories is a great way to get things rolling (and will give you something to talk about on the first date). Just keep is light. "What's the most embarrassing thing you did in grade school?" is fun. "What's your deepest regret?" is not. 3. Type this sentence verbatim: "So, where should we get that drink?" You already know that this person finds

Ideas For Perfect Date

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First date is the best way to make a great impression, and to get a glimpse of what your date is. In such a situation a valid question is ‘What are we going to do on our date?” Here are some great ideas to make the best out of your date. To start off, inviting someone out on a date or rather being invited on a date is very nice. Fact is – no one knows what your dating partner likes to do. You don’t know what kind of situations you have to face when you meet your partner. To avoid these kinds of inconveniences it is always better to have something in mind when you go for your first date. Top 5 Ideas for the Perfect Date Why plan a Get away First impression is the best impression.The activity you pick for your first date plays a major role in success of the first date. A great activity that is comfortable to both of you brings out the best in you and possibly you both end up being comfortable with each other.The impressions created during such an active session will last l

Is This Why Mobile Dating Is So Popular?

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Why are we so attached to our smartphones? And why has mobile dating become the greatest thing since sliced bread (and online dating)? Psychologists think they have the answer. Mobile dating apps are not soaring in popularity because they offer an easy way to meet potential love interests, but because they replicate ‘real world’ dating experiences better than traditional online dating sites. Apps like Millionaire Match and Tinder allow users to scroll through pictures of potential dates (or less) in nearby locations, and then chat with members who show interest in their profiles. That focus on the first impression – especially of a user's physical appearance – mimics people's real-life, instinctive impulses much better than traditional online dating sites. That's not to say that photos aren’t important on traditional dating sites, because of course they are. And of course people make snap judgments based on physical appearance. All the time. But most online dating